Sunday, 15 October 2017

Healing - Changing Your Self Talk


We all have a running dialogue with ourselves.  The key is to make sure that the dialogue is positive and reinforcing.  Unfortunately, many of us have a negative self talk where we berate ourselves or punish ourselves with words.

The following exercise comes from

Changing your critical self-talk

This exercise should be done over several weeks and will eventually form the blueprint for changing how you relate to yourself long-term. Some people find it useful to work on their inner critic by writing in a journal. Others are more comfortable doing it via internal dialogues. If you are someone who likes to write things down and revisit them later, journaling can be an excellent tool for transformation. If you are someone (like me) who never manages to be consistent with a journal, then do whatever works for you. You can speak aloud to yourself, or think silently.

  1. The first step towards changing the way to treat yourself is to notice when you are being self-critical. It may be that – like many of us — your self-critical voice is so common for you that you don’t even notice when it is present. Whenever you’re feeling bad about something, think about what you’ve just said to yourself. Try to be as accurate as possible, noting your inner speech verbatim. What words do you actually use when you’re self-critical? Are there key phrases that come up over and over again? What is the tone of your voice – harsh, cold, angry? Does the voice remind you of any one in your past who was critical of you? You want to be able to get to know the inner self-critic very well, and to become aware of when your inner judge is active. For instance, if you’ve just eaten half a box of Oreo’s, does your inner voice say something like “you’re so disgusting,” “you make me sick,” and so on? Really try to get a clear sense of how you talk to yourself.
  2. Make an active effort to soften the self-critical voice, but do so with compassion rather than self-judgment (I.e., don’t say “you’re such a bitch” to your inner critic!). Say something like “I know you’re worried about me and feel unsafe, but you are causing me unnecessary pain. Could you let my inner compassionate self say a few words now?”
  3. Reframe the observations made by your inner critic in a friendly, positive way. If you’re having trouble thinking of what words to use, you might want to imagine what a very compassionate friend would say to you in this situation. It might help to use a term of endearment that strengthens expressed feelings of warmth and care (but only if it feels natural rather than schmaltzy.) For instance, you can say something like “Darling, I know you ate that bag of cookies because you’re feeling really sad right now and you thought it would cheer you up. But you feel even worse and are not feeling good in your body. I want you to be happy, so why don’t you take a long walk so you feel better?” While engaging in this supportive self-talk, you might want to try gently stroking your arm, or holding your face tenderly in your hands (as long as no one’s looking). Physical gestures of warmth can tap into the caregiving system even if you’re having trouble calling up emotions of kindness at first, releasing oxytocin that will help change your bio-chemistry. The important thing is that you start acting kindly, and feelings of true warmth and caring will eventually follow.


Friday, 13 October 2017

Healing - Letting Go of Toxic Situation


Life is about exploring new things, practicing skills to become masterful at them, and its about meeting new people and having new experiences.

What do you do if your life has a toxic situation in it – for example a toxic person or toxic group? Well, you need to let go of them.  How do you recognize these people? 

Qualities of a Toxic Person

Life coach Cheryl Richardson describes five types of toxic qualities in people:

  • Blamer (keeps complaining)
  • Drainer (always needs you and contacts you only when he needs you)
  • Shamer (keeps criticising you)
  • Discounter (discounts or challenges everything you say)
  • Gossip (keeps talking about others at their back)

If he/she is any or all of the above, you just get him/her out of your life, please. (From

Why You Need to Let A Toxic Person Go

The following advice comes from

If you, like me, have considered letting someone go, ask yourself these questions:

How do you feel in their presence: drained or alive? Does the person always have your best interests in mind? Do they belittle you when you share your feelings? Do they make promises and never follow up?

If you answered yes to the final two questions, it might be time to move on to make space in your life for healthy, happy relationships.

The Process of Letting Go Of A Toxic Relationship


1. Express your feelings in a letter.

Focus on one relationship that’s draining you and write a letter to the person you want to let go. Pour out your feelings onto the paper. The letter can be as long or short as you want.

End the letter with, “I release you across all space and time. Thank you for helping me learn and grow.” Fold the paper, burn it, and bury it in the ground to signify a complete release to the universe. This particular ritual is magical. I instantly start to feel lighter.

2. Clear your physical space.

Physical cleaning is so helpful when you are letting go of the past. Our physical space is a representation of what we’re giving space in our life.

Sell or donate any gifts you received, and burn any letters from the person you’re tying to let go. You’re going to face a lot of resistance; you’ll come up with reasons to hold on to these things. Remind yourself that this crucial to moving on and feeling happier with yourself and your life.

3. Get clear on what you need.

Write down how you want to feel in your life and within your relationships.

This is how I want my life and relationships to feel:

  • Alive
  • Filled with laughter
  • Supportive
  • Loving
  • Understanding

If you’re not sure how you want to feel on the whole, start with just the immediate future. How do you want to feel this month?

4. Start filling the empty space.

Now that you’ve created space by releasing unhealthy relationships, write a list of activities that will help you feel and experience your desires. For example, you could join a dance group to feel alive.

Put a little time into your passion every day. Writing makes me come alive, so I make sure to write daily.

As you start dedicating time to things that are important to you, the right people will come into your life—people who see and appreciate you for who you really are.



Wednesday, 11 October 2017

Healing - Releasing Resentment


It may seem to readers that have been following this blog for the past couple of days that the theme seems to be SELF LOVE.  That is true.  However, there are so many aspects to the harm that we do to ourselves that we need many ways of undoing the harm, and many ways to promote healing.  One of the most common destructive emotions I see in clients is resentment.

I like this exercise on releasing resentment.  It appears in many books and articles.  The exercise write up comes from the blog

Dissolving Resentment

Dissolving resentment can be simple, not easy but simple. One of the best exercises I have used in my own life and offered to my clients is an exercise that Louise Hay shares in her book, “You Can Heal Your Life” and she point out that this is an old Emmet Fox exercise that helps to dissolve resentment. Since it helps to dissolve the resentment, it will also help you in forgiving others and in forgiving yourself.

  • Close your eyes and take a few deep breaths and when you feel relaxed, imagine yourself in a special place. This special place can be anywhere that your imagination takes you, perhaps somewhere in nature or to a special forgiveness room that you can return to again and again when doing forgiveness work.
  • In the spirit of forgiving others, think of someone who you resent in some way or someone who has upset, hurt or offended you. See this person sitting in front of you, at a distance that feels comfortable to you. If for any reason it is not comfortable for you to invite this person into the sacred space that you have created with your imagination envision them behind a wall of glass or in a room across from yours or see them on the TV screen, be creative and do what feels comfortable.
  • When you see this person clearly, visualize good things happening to this person – things that would be meaningful to him. See him or her smiling and happy. Hold the image for a few minutes and then let it fade away.
  • Now take a moment to do the same for yourself. Once the image of the other person fades, see good things happening to you. See yourself smiling and happy. Feel how good this feels. Close your session with gratitude.

Remember, the information in this blog  is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider for a medical condition.


Monday, 9 October 2017

Happy Thanksgiving Canada 2017


Happy Thanksgiving to all beings. 

The following prayer of gratitude comes from the site  Enjoy.

Iroquois Prayer of Gratitude

We return thanks to our mother, the earth, which sustains us.
We return thanks to the rivers and streams, which supply us with waters.
We return thanks to all herbs, which furnish medicine for the cure of our diseases.
We return thanks to the corn, and to her sisters, the beans and the squashes, which give us life.
We return thanks to the wind, which moving the air has banished diseases.
We return thanks to the moon and the stars,
which have given us their light when the sun was gone.
We return thanks to the sun, that he has looked upon the earth with a beneficent eye.
Lastly, we return thanks to the Great Spirit, in whom is embodied all goodness, and who directs all things for the good of his children.


Healing - The Hawaiian Concept–Ho'oponopono


The Hawaiians' have a practice that allows them to clear themselves of issues. The following definition of Ho'oponopono comes from Uplift Connect at

What is ho’oponopono?

On the surface level, many people have understood ho’oponopono to be a mantra where one repeats the words ‘I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you, I love you’ as a form of mental and spiritual cleaning that could be compared to Buddhist techniques for clearing karma. It has been defined as a forgiveness and reconciliation practice, cleansing of ‘errors of thought’ – the origin of problems and sickness in the physical world, according the the Hawaiian worldview. The literal translation is ‘to put to right; to put in order or shape, correct, revise, adjust, amend, regulate, arrange, rectify, tidy up, make orderly or neat.”

The process that you can use is neatly summarized in the website at  

Try the process and see how it works for you.

The Process of Ho'oponopono:

  1. Bring to mind anyone with whom you do not feel total alignment or support, etc.
  2. In your mind's eye, construct a small stage below you
  3. Imagine an infinite source of love and healing flowing from a source above the top of your head (from your Higher Self), and open up the top of your head, and let the source of love and healing flow down inside your body, fill up the body, and overflow out your heart to heal up the person on the stage. Be sure it is all right for you to heal the person and that they accept the healing.
  4. When the healing is complete, have a discussion with the person and forgive them, and have them forgive you.
  5. Next, let go of the person, and see them floating away. As they do, cut the aka cord that connects the two of you (if appropriate). If you are healing in a current primary relationship, then assimilate the person inside you.
  6. Do this with every person in your life with whom you are incomplete, or not aligned.
    The final test is, can you see the person or think of them without feeling any negative emotions. If you do feel negative emotions when you do, then do the process again.

Remember, the information in this blog  is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider for a medical condition.


Saturday, 7 October 2017

Healing - Regaining Self Love


Sometimes, we get into a self destructive rut where we have a fear that we cannot control, and in trying to quiet the fear, we end up doing other damage to ourselves.  Sharon Salzberg, Buddhist teacher has a great blog about exactly this phenomenon at

The following meditation exercise comes from Sharon's blog and will help one with regaining self love.

Standing meditation to take a stand for self-love

I recommend doing standing meditation barefoot, as you will have a greater sensitivity to your sense of balance and the micro-sensations happening in your muscles and skin. But if it is more comfortable, wear socks or comfortable shoes.

  1. Stand upright with your back straight but not strained. Close your eyes gently and relax the muscles in your face and jaw. Note the feeling of the earth beneath you supporting your weight. Make deliberate contact with the floor by pressing through your big toe mound on each foot, and feel how the floor presses into the soles of your feet. If you are standing on a rug or carpet, notice the sensations of the fabric. If you are standing on a hard floor, notice the temperature, the texture. Take in these sensations.
  2. Once you have established a sense of how the posture feels generally, try experimenting with your stance. Make micro-adjustments to your balance by subtly shifting your body weight from side-to-side. After shifting your weight from leg to leg, experiment with rolling each foot from side to side, loosening your ankles and stimulating the sole of the foot.
  3. The next part of the meditation focuses on experimenting with your posture, and the ways that your bones stack up on top of each other. Start with your knees slightly bent, and slowly straighten them as you strengthen your quadriceps muscles, imagining them moving back toward your thigh-bone. Make sure your knees aren’t locked, but that your legs feel extended.
  4. As you feel your legs in this extended position, notice the angle of your pelvis, and how it is lifting your spine to its straight position. Then, pull your shoulders back and down as you feel how they connect to your spine. You may notice that this posture feels easier on your back, as it elongates the body by removing pressure on the lower spine. As you experiment with straightening your spine greater and lesser amounts, modulate your breath, seeing how it feels to inhale and exhale more deeply as you stand taller and stronger.
  5. Continue making these adjustments and enjoying the rhythm of your breath. Visualize this ritual as an opportunity to take a stand on your right to be happy.

Remember, the information in this blog  is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider for a medical condition.


Thursday, 5 October 2017

Healing - Everything Does Heal


Science has proven that our physical body can heal itself.  When the physical body does not heal, some doctors believe it is because the organ or area damaged has a memory of trauma that stops it from regenerating.  To help our body heal, we need to undo the trauma that it is storing in its memory cells. 

Sometimes, the trauma is caused by the painful memories.  Have a look at the following information from, which is an excerpt of information from Hardwiring Happiness: The New Brain Science of Contentment, Calm, and Confidence, by neuropsychologist Rick Hanson. (link to the whole article

How to HEAL

Based on the latest in neuroscience finds Rick Hanson offers a simple, yet effective, method for rewiring the brain from the negative emotions associated with trauma to the positive emotions associated with health and wellness. In his book, he describes a four step process using the acronym HEAL.

  1. Have a positive experience.

Step 1 activates a positive mental state, and steps 2, 3, and 4 install it in your brain. In step 1 we notice a positive experience that’s already present in the foreground or background of your awareness. In the example I offered at the beginning, I tuned into an experience where I felt safe and supported, and brought to mind experiences of safety and security.

  1. Enrich it.

Too often we spend minutes, and sometimes hours and days, ruminating over a negative experience, but we gloss over the positive. Here we take time to deepen the positive experience. I would open myself to the feelings of support I have in my life. I would picture and my wife and friends and the many supports I have, filling my inner conscious with at least 10 to 20 seconds of positive memory.

  1. Absorb it.

Here we imagine ourselves drinking in the experience. I imagine all my cells being infused with the experience. I feel it sinking into me and becoming part of my brain and all the parts of my being.

  1. Link positive and negative material.

Hanson describes this as an optional step. We don’t want to become overwhelmed by the negative, but to hold the negative in consciousness while it is infused with the positive. Hanson uses the image of a garden. We imagine the beauty of beautiful flowers we are planting. We become aware of the weeds and gently pull them out so there’s room for growth. He concludes by saying, “Whenever you want, let go of all negative material and rest only in the positive. Then, to continue uprooting the negative material, a few times over the next hour be aware of only neutral or positive things that may have been associated with the negative.

Remember, this information is not meant to replace or refute any advice from a physician or medical expert.


Tuesday, 3 October 2017

Healing - Send Healing Energy To Others


When we have self healing to do, and when we are feeling sorry for ourselves, we can get so focused that we forget that there are others out there that also need healing.

Sometimes, the first step to self healing is to look at someone else, and see their pain, or circumstance, and wish for healing for them.  Some rules for this… 1) make sure the person has asked for help and 2) make sure that you are sending the healing from a place of love.  You can always ask someone if they would like you to send them healing energy. An easy way to start is to exchange energy with a friend.

Here are some suggestions for sending healing energy.

1) Find a quiet place to sit, and ask for angel light to surround you to keep you safe.

2) Visualize yourself surrounded in white light or in purple light, so that you see yourself in a big ball of light. 

3) Then invite the person needing healing to step into your healing ball of light.  Hold them there for several minutes. Increase this to five minutes after a week.  The aim is to be kind and helpful, not to play yourself out.

You may notice that after doing this practice for several weeks, that the other person feels lighter, and that you feel a change in your body.

Remember, this information on healing does not replace healing advice from a medical professional. Do consult your doctor if you are in chronic pain or discomfort.


Sunday, 1 October 2017

Sunday Oct 1 2017–About Healing


October is a time of big change for us because we go from fall into winter.  In fact, our first snowfall is forecast for early tomorrow morning.  As Mother Earth changes, it is a time for us to look at change.  Maybe, this is the time for you to practice some self healing.

The world is shifting at an ever changing pace.  The fears that are surfacing and then come to pass, are fears:

  • about loosing one's identity,
  • about poverty including lack of food and/or money,
  • about people having power over you
  • about lack of control
  • about loosing what one has
  • about pain and illness
  • about doing the wrong thing
  • about dying

Many of these fears may be overcome by spending some time learning how to do some quick, self healing.

Note that the self healing that will be discussed over the next month does not replace medical doctor's advice, and these blogs should not be taken as medical advice.

What these blogs are intended to do is to provide some coping mechanisms for the turmoil and pains that one might feel in their daily life.

Watch for the next blog posts about some healing strategies.


Sunday, 17 September 2017

Buddha Speaks - The Garden


The thought of karmic gardening is a very clever way to point out that we have choices in our lives.  When we are moving forward in life, we need to attend to the positive thoughts, identify the negative thoughts, and release the negative thoughts. 

Negative thoughts or weeds, are usually thoughts of judgement, jealousy, anger, displeasure, envy, condemnation, or any other thought that is not supporting you and others.

Today, do not give the weeds any fertilizer to grow into thoughts that pull you down and keep you from being happy.


Friday, 15 September 2017

Buddha Speaks - On Generosity


Over the past year in North America, different areas of the continent have been hit by floods and fires and wind via tornadoes and hurricanes.  We have all had a chance to be generous to those who have had misfortune, through no fault of their own.  We have had the chance to help people/families rebuild.  Many people do not give, however.  We wonder why. 

It is not the way of people today to be overly generous.  Most often it is because they live from pay to pay, and have little put away for emergencies.  Regardless of the circumstances, the abundance will flow to you if you practice generosity beyond your immediate family.


Wednesday, 13 September 2017

Buddha Speaks - Forgiveness


Forgiveness is really not about someone’s harmful behavior; it’s about our own relationship with our past. When we begin the work of forgiveness, it is primarily a practice for ourselves.
—Gina Sharpe, “The Power of Forgiveness”

There is much to be grateful for in life.  However, when we are carrying around intense anger, resentment, and blame, we are not able to live in the present moment and enjoy the time to be grateful.

We have the free will to shift our thought patterns.  We often forget that.  We do not need to carry around the same thoughts and old grudges.  Clean your closet and forgive. 


Monday, 11 September 2017

Buddha Speaks - You Cannot Hide Three Things


When you observe conflict between people – families, friends, co-workers – quite often it seems the conflict is caused by someone keeping "something" a secret.  The secret or lack of communication causes the conflict.

As the poster says, the sun and the moon are natural phenomenon that must shine because of the natural bodies that they are.  In the same way, truth always shines because it occurs naturally, and will always be.


Saturday, 9 September 2017

Buddha Speaks - Speak Mindfully


What I find is that people talk a lot!  They seem to be afraid of silence.  And, often, the words lack substance; they are empty without conveying true thought or commitment. 

The chatty people criticize the silent people for their silence.  The silent people wear ear plugs to be able to tolerate the noisy people.

How would the world be different if people only spoke when they had something meaningful to say?


Thursday, 7 September 2017

Buddha Speaks - Do Not Compare Yourself to Others


The hardest thing in life is to stop comparing yourself to others.  We do  a comparison because from the earliest time that we can remember, our parents are comparing us to other people. 

As a baby, the question is, "who does she/he look like?"  In school, are you as smart as …  your dad, your mother, your sister, your brother, or the kid down the street.  Comparison is a learned behavior

If you can change one thing this month, refrain from comparing yourself to others.


Tuesday, 5 September 2017

Buddha Speaks - Remembering Old Wrongs


I was sitting with a group of friends and the discussion came up about family and the things that disappoint you or bother you about family members and their traits.

The most common trait that the friends brought up was that one or two members in the family remembered and brought up any wrong that they thought had been done to them, whether it was real or just their perception.  The list of hurts was surprising.  Things like:

  • they served me a cold meal
  • they did not make me feel welcome
  • they laughed at .. "something"
  • they didn't give me a good present
  • they didn't remember my birthday, or anniversary, or…
  • they didn't treat me as special
  • they didn't appreciate all the work that I went to
  • they didn't appreciate what I did for them
  • they didn't appreciate how far I travelled

The list was much longer, and, I am sure that you get the idea.  The other common trait was that all of the sufferers were also very sad or angry.  They typically were not pleasant people to be around. 

The conclusion was that "something" caused the person to be sad/angry/depressed and that this made them turn everything in their lives into a slight towards them or a deliberate action of hurt.  Is there a cure?  Most in the circle thought not.  They believed the condition was self inflicted, by carrying the memory of all wrongs.


Sunday, 3 September 2017

Buddha Speaks - Don't Take Revenge


Most people that feel that they have been wronged also feel that they would like a revenge of some sort.  Wanting revenge is a human condition that mankind cannot seem to grow out of.

Buddha's message is that people that cause purposeful harm to others will usually have some event happen in their life.  The key is that the harm is purposeful.

I overheard a man chastising a woman for a perceived wrong that he thought she had done to someone else, and it was obvious that he did not know the whole story.  He told her that karma would get her.  First, he interfered in something that was not his concern; he just like to point out people's faults. Second, when you interfere without permission, but think you are acting for someone's best interest, you are creating a harmful act.  Third, she had not done any intentional wrongs; she was acting in her child's best interest as the child's only caretaker. Fourth, there was huge irony in the fact that the man cited karma as her punishment when he was the one actually doing something harmful.


Friday, 1 September 2017

Buddha Speaks - Our Thoughts


September starts, and it is a perfect time to become mindful about our thoughts.  Physicists have been proving what Buddha has taught thousands of years ago – that thoughts are energy and that the energy is a cause that creates effects in our lives.

When we think joyful things, we are joyful and those around us become joyful.  The reverse is also true.  We have little idea of just how truly powerful our thoughts are.

For this month, send out truly positive, powerful thoughts that evoke an action of some kind.  Note the date and time, and then watch how quickly the thought manifests.

As an example, I wished that, with harm to no one,  my massage therapist, who is extremely busy, would have time open up around my appointment so that I could have an hour and a half massage for my sore back. An hour and a half before my appointment time, I got a call saying that there had been a cancellation before me and did I want to start my massage earlier.  The answer was "yes!".  I got my extra time.


Thursday, 31 August 2017

Good-bye, Louise Hay - August 30 2017


Louise Hay, beloved author, spiritual teacher, and inspirational leader, passed away yesterday morning.

Here is her biography from the website.


Louise Hay was an inspirational teacher who educated millions since the 1984 publication of her bestseller You Can Heal Your Life, which has more than 50 million copies in print worldwide. Renowned for demonstrating the power of affirmations to bring about positive change, Louise was the author of more than 30 books for adults and children, including the bestsellers The Power Is Within You and Heal Your Body. In addition to her books, Louise produced numerous audio and video programs, card decks, online courses, and other resources for leading a healthy, joyous, and fulfilling life.

You can read the tribute to Louise Hay on the HayHouse website at

All of us that read your books, listened to your teachings, and called you, "Mentor", will miss you!


Friday, 25 August 2017

Spirit Animal - Lion Says Enjoy Life


Lion tells us that Life is Good.  He tells us that life is about the journey.  The destination is always to return to Creator.  However, in the time between being born and passing, the greatest purpose is to grow and to have fun.

Lion tells us that everyone's life is exactly what you make it.  There is not one good way to move forward.  There are many ways!  For Lion, choosing the most interesting path, not the easiest, leads to better hunting and food.

For more info on Lion's thoughts, check the blog postings below:


Monday, 21 August 2017

Spirit Animal - Gorilla on Strength


Teachers tell us that when animals appear in our dreams, visions, and through pictures in our daily lives, that the animal has a message or wisdom to share.

Gorilla has been showing up to give remarkable demonstrations on strength.  Some of her thoughts are:

  • Strength must be both physical and mental.  To achieve your strongest physical capability, you must practice (workout). To achieve your clearest mental state, you must take on challenges.
  • Your personality must be clearly defined with a strong sense of goodness and fairness.  Bullies and nasty actions are not accepted.
  • Make either your hearing or your sight one of your strongest traits.  Hearing will let you hear those that plan to harm you.
  • Strength lies in the loyalty of the tribe to one another and to finding food for the good of all

Gorilla tells us to evaluate where we stand with family, with friends, and with our colleagues at work.  She asks us to measure the worth of sticking with them.


To see more about Gorilla, see the links below.

Tuesday, 15 August 2017

Spirit Animal - About Permission


When we move through life, we do so within the company of many other beings… other humans, animals, birds, aquatics, insects, and possibly animals that we do not yet know.  Man is not kind, generally, to other beings.

Today, let us start a trend to kindness to all beings.  Others do not require our permission.  They require our compassion.


Sunday, 13 August 2017

Spirit Animal - Animal Rights


The one thing that we can all be clear on is that all inhabitants of the Earth have the right to be here as each unique being is part of Earth's balance.

Today, find some way to help the animals, whether it is dogs and cats, or animals in the zoo.  Or, perhaps, endangered animals in your area need help.

You can give time or money, or both.  Every time that you are in service to Nature, you show your gratitude for Mother Nature and all that are in her domain.


Friday, 11 August 2017

Spirit Animal - Tiger Talks About Life


Although Tiger may seem an unlikely guide on life, she comes forward with many thoughts to share about how to live and enjoy your life.

Here are her thoughts:

  1. Walk your territory (neighborhood) several times a week to keep up with changes around you.
  2. Stay in harmony with Nature. 
  3. Eat only those foods that are good for your body.  These foods increase your health, strength, and longevity.
  4. Drink lots of clean water. 
  5. Create a routine.  Stick with it as much as possible for it will keep you grounded.


Monday, 7 August 2017

Spirit Animal - Dog on Love


More and more is being written about dogs and about their purpose.  Some people fear dogs because of snarling, biting, or other aggressive acts.  Dogs are not aggressive unless defending "something" or unless they have owners that have taught them to be aggressive. 

Dog will tell you that her purpose on Earth is to teach unconditional love.  She says that she is to reach out to as many people as she can, even when she is with a loving family.  Dog provides something that people cannot – love without rules or conditions. 

Today, find a dog and close your eyes and look at it to see if you can see the light around its body.


Saturday, 5 August 2017

Spirit Animal–Fox's Message


As the world gets more crowded with humans, the animals are pushed into habitats that are amongst people.  The animals follow the rivers and streams and live in the river valleys and parks.  The animals may be aggressive if one steps into their territory with disrespect and with arrogance. 

Fox lives in the cities and towns and raids the garbage and steals the odd small dog and cat.  Fox tells us that we humans must adapt to them as Fox has had to adapt to humans.  When we speak to Fox, Fox tells us that he can recognize whether we are sincere, whether we are trustworthy, and whether we can cohabitate together.

Today, when you are out in Nature, look for Fox and make an agreement to live with him and with other animals.


Thursday, 3 August 2017

Spirit Tree - About Struggle


We humans think that life is about struggle, and that struggle is made to challenge us or break us.

Spirit Tree tells us that struggle is the mechanism that Mother Nature uses to strengthen plants, animals, and other beings.  As the environment changes, the flora and fauna within the environment must change.  Most humans will not change of their own will so change becomes part of the human conditioning.  Hence, the struggle.

When we move with the rhythm of the world around us, then we no longer need to struggle.  Our challenge is to find the rhythm that suits us.


Tuesday, 1 August 2017

Spirit Animal - Lion and Leo August 1 2017


Figure 1 from August 1 Zodiac

Time moves more quickly, it seems, through the summer.  Although the sign of Leo starts on July 23 (until August 22), many people associate August with the Zodiac sign, Leo.  Leo, or THE LION sign,  speaks to the character of individuals who are very much like the Lion who is king of his pride or community.

Lion has several messages for us as we kick off August.

  • Find what you are passionate about, and pursue that dream
  • Understand your environment, and make sure that you know the motives of everyone in your environment.  This is a way to stay safe.
  • Determine who you want to be in your community – friends, family, and acquaintances, and let those that do not fit in your energies drop off your circle.
  • Stay hydrated.


More on August 1

Angels Speak - August 1, 2014
Angels Speak - How Do You Set Intentions For August 1, 2011
Ancestors Speak – August 1 – Lammas
Earth Changes – August 1 2010 – Non Discrimination

Monday, 31 July 2017

Saint Germain - Get Out Into Nature


Saint Germain tells us that often the best way to deal with a problem, dilemma, anxiety, depression, or just being off balance, is to get out of the house or office, and walk in Nature.  When we are out of our regular environment, we can shed the grind of work and email and family responsibilities.  We can breathe in the clarity of the smell of pine and popular and breathe out the toxic chi that accumulates in our body.

In the parks and woods or along a river or lake, you will find more freedom to talk to God/Goddess/Universe/Angels/Ancestors.  There is a joke that in the wilderness, the call to God is a local one.  In the city, it becomes a long distance call. 

Today, plan time to get out into Nature.  Feel the healing when you do.


Saturday, 29 July 2017

Saint Germain - Stay Positive


One of the best ways to stay positive says Saint Germain, is to be kind and loving, and to forgive all those things that are stepping in your way as you walk through your world on a daily basis. 

Each person sees the day and the activity in the day, in a framework based on that person's experience.  This means that we have a chance to start over each day, if that is what our framework is.

How wonderful!  A blank slate every day.


Thursday, 27 July 2017

Saint Germain - Sweat and Tears


Saint Germain tells us that we do not share our salt.  What he means is that we tend not to work hard (sweat) for others and we tend not to cry for others. 

Humans have become more self centered and more selfish.  Although one must keep the self tuned and healthy, it should not be as an abuse of power or at the expense of others.


Tuesday, 25 July 2017

Saint Germain - Don't Park Your Life


People complain about being in a rut.  The truth of the matter, says Saint Germain, is that they park their hopes, dreams, and creativity, and then expect life to get better. 

Life does not work that way.  Life is about going out and experiencing different things.  It is about stumbling, and even falling, and rolling over, and getting up.  The expectation was that humans would be in a continuous state of learning and experimenting.  However, humans got caught up in the fear of failing so would set up their lives so they could not fail.

Life is not meant to be dull.  Life is meant to be about learning to go with the flow, and learning to be in service to self and to others.

What will you be doing today?


Sunday, 23 July 2017

Saint Germain - 12 Step Program to Self Care


Saint Germain found a poster that lists the twelve steps that we can each follow to improve our self care. 

These steps are not hard and fast rules; they are guidelines for those who have not had guidelines before.

Follow them.


Friday, 21 July 2017

Saint Germain - Do the Best That You Can


Saint Germain says that life is full of surprises.  We travel up and down emotionally and mentally depending on what is going on around us.  We may have physical ailments that fill us with pain and cripple or stop us.  What do we do?

We beat ourselves up because we cannot do this or that.  We berate ourselves for our perceived short comings. We compare ourselves to others. We moan and groan and whine.

Saint Germain asks us to stop doing this to ourselves.


Wednesday, 19 July 2017

Saint Germain - Approve of Yourself


Saint Germain tells us that we are very hard on ourselves.  Mostly, he says, because others are hard on us.  They criticize, want to change us, and condemn us for things that they dislike. 

Saint Germain tells us that it is time to take back our lives and to give approval to ourselves.  When we are in spirit, we can easily see how perfect we are.  This peace is filled with gratitude.  Our wellbeing comes back to us, and we move forward with confidence and with faith.


Monday, 17 July 2017

Saint Germain - Banish Fear


Let the fear go… says Saint Germain, and let the world shift for you into a kind and abundant place. 

The words make sense.  If we are locked in fear, we cannot see beyond the walls of the prison.  We get stuck in "what ifs…".  We can move beyond the fear.


More on Fear

Spirit Speaks - What Is Fear?
Spirit Speaks–The Meaning of Fear
Angels Speak - The Time To Be In Service
Angels Speak - Conquering Fear

Saturday, 15 July 2017

Saint Germain - Show Your Emotions


Saint Germain tells us over and over that we must release our emotions and not keep them bottled up inside.  When we keep emotions inside, we provide an entry point for did-ease.  And, did-ease leads to major illnesses.  Get stuff out!

Our bodies know how to heal themselves so it is time to get the stuff out so that healing may commence.  Scientists have proven that our cells regenerate.  If you have an injury or ailment that will not heal, it is because healing is blocked by the emotion that is stuck in that organ, or that gastric system, or in the cardiovascular system. 

Stuck emotions become gooey and dark in our bodies.  The emotions make us tired and cranky, and depressed.  We do not need to hang on to them


Thursday, 13 July 2017

Saint Germain - More on Forgiveness


When we live in a state of resentment and anger, Saint Germain tells us that we are doing so because we believe in retribution or punishment, instead of forgiveness.  We wish to take punishment into our own hands and it becomes revenge.  It is not spiritual and will create another round of karma that we will need to balance out.

With forgiveness, mankind must also learn compassion.  The compassion helps to incorporate another's experience into your energy so that you may see/feel/understand the other person's journey. 

Changing can take a long time.  Or, with Saint Germain's help, you can change overnight.  Call him in, and ask him to help you shift.  Visualize the Violet Flame as a very large ball of light that surrounds you and Saint Germain, and then bring up the issues that you have with individuals or with groups, and let go.  Forgive.


More on Forgiveness

Angels Speak - Forgiveness Lightens You
Angels Speak - Gifts for Christmas
Angels Speak – A vortex of clouds
Angels Speak - Finding Release

Tuesday, 11 July 2017

Saint Germain - Now Is The Time To Forgive


Saint Germain tells us that the next four months – July to October – are the months that we need to work on forgiving people in our life.  It does not matter what you think they "did" or what their actions were.  It is part of moving forward to find that space to examine the scenario, and let it go from your thoughts.

He suggests using this invocation.

Invocation of Forgiveness
Today, I call on the powers of forgiveness,
the hope that heals & wipes away resentment,
I am ready to forgive & heal old wounds.
I forgive you for the past, making way for friendship &
to forgive all who have hurt me in the past, deliberately
or by accident. I am ready to forgive myself for errors
made & things I have done in the past that I regret.
Healing replaces resentment, peace replaces anger
as forgiveness grows inside me, my heart lightens.
filling me with a sense of wellbeing & acceptance,
I embrace forgiveness, the great healer of hearts.

The invocation above comes from an earlier blog Ancestors Speak - We Are Temporary In This World


Sunday, 9 July 2017

Saint Germain - You Are Essential


Saint Germain tells us that it is time to let go of the need or craving to please other people.  He says that everyone is essential to the world and to the Universe.  When we need other people's approval or when we listen to another person tell us what we should do… we loose our ability to hear Creation talk to us.

When we trust in our inner guidance, we begin to heal our soul from all the indignities that we have suffered up to that point.  We feel peace and we find that other opinions no longer matter.  We are in a place of well being and Spirit moves us along.


Friday, 7 July 2017

Saint Germain - I'm Possible


The glorious thing about everything being possible, is that it removes the limits.  Saint Germain is associated with the Violet Flame (Violet Fire), which removes obstacles and promotes healing, Light, positivity, and helps us to love ourselves.

This is the time to remove impossible from your vocabulary.  This is the time to know that you can do anything.  IF you want to see some examples of how wrong judges can be about people, check YouTube to see all the singers that are now stars, making millions, that were rejected on American Idol, Britain/America etc. Got Talent, or on THE VOICE. 

You can find hundreds of examples where people were told their ideas were not any good, that they were too old, or that no one was interested, and then that person went on to achieve their goals.

You are possible!


Wednesday, 5 July 2017

Saint Germain - Do Things Now!

Saint Germain tells us that time is now running out for you to do all the things that you have on your bucket list.  This is not because you are about to die, but because Great Spirit will call you to work in service to humanity.  Some of you are already doing this work.  Some have refused. 
Right now, take time for yourself and do something that you have wanted to do for a long time.  You will gain positivity.  You will be letting go.  You will be learning. You will come to a place of harmony.  Time will be less of a distraction to you.
Sit down and list the things that you want to do.  Work at creating a space to let them happen.

Tuesday, 4 July 2017

July 4 2017–Happy July 4th


This is a day to celebrate the blessings that are available each day.

This is a day to remember the Ancestors that explored, discovered, invented, and lobbied for all that we have today.


Monday, 3 July 2017

Saint Germain - How To Do Some Self Healing

Figure 1 – This picture comes from the website
Saint Germain is guiding us to try some self healing using Hand Reflexology.  The next two months – to Aug 2 – are pivotal in people gaining better health.  Aligning the spine and the legs as well as working on healing all one's organs are the areas of healing that need to be done most quickly.  When your body operates at 100%, you will be able to tackle all challenges.
This is a wonderful time to show love to yourself.  Heal yourself.  Forget about others for the time being.  Step forward into the natural remedy era for self healing.  Live your life and be healthy.

Saturday, 1 July 2017

July 1 2017–Happy Canada Day!

image Hello, Canada, and Happy Canada Day!

And, Happy 150th! image

Canada has lots of celebrating to do.  Although confederation is only 150 years old, Canada has centuries of history courtesy of very brave and determined Ancestors who set out to explore the new world.

Today is a great day to give thanks to all the Ancestors who had the courage to move forward, to go beyond what they knew, to create what we have today.


Thursday, 29 June 2017

Archangels Speak - Do Not Sacrifice Your Family


The Archangels tell us that many people believe that in order to get ahead, or to fit in with others, that they must sacrifice dignity, family, and their self (heart).  When we do sacrifice these things, we give away our power and our soul.  We have no self worth left.

When people make this kind of sacrifice, they usually do it because they think these ties are holding them back from success.  The Angels tell us that it is these ties that keep us sane and grounded. 

Today, remember, with gratitude, how awesome it is to have family to hold in your heart, even when you do not get along.  And, remember to walk with dignity.


Tuesday, 27 June 2017

Archangels Speak - Who You Want to Be


The Archangels tell us that we are suffocating ourselves in the offices that we spend all of our time in.  We have forgotten what it is like to participate in Nature.  The Angels say that we stifle our spirit and our creativity by being cramped into cubicles or offices that set boundaries for our behavior.

The Angels encourage us to breathe, and to go outside and breathe.  They tell us that we need to go out and explore the natural world as the technology world is superficial.


Related blog posts (click on the link below):

Angels Speak - Conquering Fear
Steps To Harmony
Angels Speak - Allowing Time For Yourself
Spirit Speaks - When You Slip In The Mud