The Angels tell us that many things in life change. Change is a constant. They also tell us to beware of the people who do not want us to change.
Stopping us from changing, from growing, is a control tactic used by many to keep their world the same. They don't want you to change because it means that they may need to change to keep pace with you and with others. That puts pressure on them. They feel uncomfortable. They blame you.
Know that nothing is your fault. Cause and effect are a physical law.