When we want to feel peace in our lives, we sometimes look at ourselves and blame our lives for being cursed. In our perception, we have all the bad luck, all the things go wrong, and all the issues in the family. Therefore, we must be cursed!
It is funny, isn’t it, that others look at our lives and think how lucky we are! They see the family squabbles as wonderful because you have family, and they don't. They see your bad luck at not getting a job as great luck because the business goes bankrupt. They see your failure to create a painting masterpiece as a new way of creating art.
Do you see where I am going with this?