Life is always about change. Remembering that it is only the future that you can change is an excellent practice to prevent you from becoming frustrated and bitter.
So many people live in the past, and do the "If only…" over and over. This stunts their growth because they block themselves from changing.
You know what it is like to be stuck – in the mud with a car, with a broken bicycle chain several miles from home, in a subway car that has stopped, and so on.
Being stuck is frustrating because one feels helpless. Being helpless means depending on someone else. There is a lesson in depending upon a professional to help you move forward. Think about the lesson.
Does the lesson fit you?