Every time that we start over, we need to learn to be positive again. It is a difficult thing – to learn to be positive. We have years of ingrained training inside us to please others, to fear change, to deny our gifts, and to over think everything.
When we begin a new part of our life, we need to please our self and to push for change. We need change to break out of our rut. We can stop looking at the past because it is in the rearview mirror, and we do not need to care about it. Ignore the comments, "Look what happened to…".
As we begin, we need to find ways to build ourselves up. It is a new way of thinking for us. It is a time to for us to look at our gifts and strengths, and use them.