The Angels tell us that we need to get over the whole idea that someone – parents, spouse, friend, child – owes you. We have been taught through banking and trade transactions that an action or activity creates a requirement of payment. This is a concept that feeds the idea of greed and revenge.
When you give, give freely so that your karma is pure. Let go of the need to have reimbursement of some kind. It will not happen, especially with family. Love yourself enough to be free of the trap of "owing". It leads to resentment.