If life isn’t going the way that you imagined that it would, then life is telling you that you need to change something. For each of us, that “something” is different. Yes, it is because we are unique. Our differences mean that our choices must be different.
If someone is telling you and one hundred others that you must make a choice to do “something”, then recognize that all one hundred and one of you are being treated the same, and your differences are not being accounted for.
If you keep making the same choices over and over, you are not only in a pattern, you are in a rut! The only way that you can get out of the rut is to choose to climb out of it.
If you want to make changes, ask the Angels for help. They will stand with you and help you shift.
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