Have you ever looked back at your life and noted that some events occur over and over? Those are life lessons that we need to learn to deal with. Until we deal with them, we are not going to move past the lessons. They will keep repeating until we understand what we are to learn.
When we learn the lesson, then we move into the healing of that situation. We have a time of letting go of the past. The transition from victim to healed is fast and is empowering. It is a blessing.